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I have to admit it - we haven't set a date, found a venue or even decided what kind of wedding we are going to have, but I'm already super stressed out! Things were going well until the wedding reality hit - I have to order tables? chairs? flowers? napkins? music? and the list goes on, probably mostly filled with things I haven't even thought about yet. I know this sounds bah humbug-ish of me, but can't we just elope? I'm so torn. On one hand, I love my family and friends and it would be so special to have them all in one place to celebrate with us, but on the other hand, some of them don't love each other and all that time and money going into just a few hours seems absurd!

Any thoughts from other brides? Will I regret not getting married in front of family and friends?